Pause. Look. Then choose.

Before the first brushstroke.

Check your pet’s comfort, coat and skin before starting. Stop for distress, pain or skin changes. Leave matted fur for professional assessment.

See the before-brushing check
A cat held in a person’s arms
Lifestyle photograph · Sam Lion / Pexels

01 / Notice first

Look at the pet before the tool.

A dog walking beside a person at home
Lifestyle photograph · Samson Katt / Pexels
  1. 01

    Comfort

    Begin in a quiet place, when your pet is comfortable with gentle contact. If they become worried or resist handling, stop and give them space.

  2. 02

    Coat

    Look for compacted or knotted fur. Do not pull through a mat or cut it out with scissors. Ask a reputable groomer for help; contact your vet if the area seems painful or the skin looks abnormal.

  3. 03

    Skin

    Notice wounds, sore patches, redness or an unexpected change in the coat. Pause grooming and speak to your vet instead of brushing over the problem.

Further reading: PDSA · Grooming pets

02 / Decide what happens next

A pause can be the right next step.

What did you notice?
Worry or resistance

Stop & give space

Do not force the session. For an established fear of handling, ask your vet for guidance.

Matted or compacted fur

Ask a professional

Leave the mat alone. A groomer can advise; pain or a skin concern calls for a vet.

Pain or skin changes

Contact your vet

A grooming tool cannot tell you what is causing the change.

This is a pause-and-seek-help guide, not a diagnosis or a mat-removal tutorial.

Before-brushing questions

My pet looks comfortable. Can I start?

Keep the first session short and gentle. Use a tool suited to your pet’s needs and follow its instructions. Ask your vet or groomer if you are unsure which tool or technique is appropriate. Continue watching your pet and stop if their response changes.

What signs mean I should stop with a cat?

RSPCA guidance says to end the session if a cat twitches, swishes their tail, growls or hisses. A change in coat condition, wounds or sore patches also warrants veterinary advice.

Will a different brush solve resistance?

Do not assume the tool is the only cause. Dogs Trust advises veterinary advice for an established fear of handling; pain can affect a dog’s response. Your vet can assess health concerns and advise on further support.

Sources & further reading

Edited by FurCommand · . General guidance; ask your vet about health concerns and a qualified groomer about your pet’s individual grooming needs.

Photos: Sam Lion and Samson Katt / Pexels. Lifestyle photographs illustrate everyday care, not medical conditions, product results or a FurCommand grooming service.